Understanding How Other Misunderstand You, co-authored by consultant and coach Ken Voges is an absolute must read.
Whether you are a pastoral, educational or executive leader this work can free you up to better understand your own working style and also those that you partner with in the front-lines.
A former professional ball player Voges is a master coach in understanding leadership styles based on the DiSC behavioral profile. He has a remarkable grasp of Scripture and helps the reader understand similarities they might have with such biblical characters such as Abraham, Moses, Esther, Paul and Barnabus, and yes, even Jesus.
Check out this short Skype interview with Ken.